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	<title>Comments on: Stop Blaming Others</title>
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	<description>Become Who You&#039;re Meant To Be</description>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
		<link>http://www.startbeingyourbest.com/2010/01/stop-blaming-others/comment-page-1/#comment-822</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 20:01:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m assuming this applies to your closest relationships too . . . 
 
Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks have ended using blame in their marriage and taken up &quot;healthy responsibility.&quot; 
 
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kathlyn-and-gay-hendricks/ending-blame-and-criticis_b_120712.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kathlyn-and-gay-hen...&lt;/a&gt; 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;m assuming this applies to your closest relationships too . . . </p>
<p>Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks have ended using blame in their marriage and taken up &quot;healthy responsibility.&quot; </p>
<p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kathlyn-and-gay-hendricks/ending-blame-and-criticis_b_120712.html" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kathlyn-and-gay-hen.." rel="nofollow">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kathlyn-and-gay-hen..</a>.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave L</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 07:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to admit I do get annoyed when I hear people saying, &#8220;It&#8217;s not my fault&#8221; these days. It is happening all too often and there is far too much of a blame and compensation culture here in the UK. I&#8217;m sure this will not only apply to the UK but that is where my experiences lie. 
 
I believe people get some degree of happiness from blaming others, attempting to make themselves look better by bringing others down. 
 
I enjoyed the book SUMO (Shut Up Move On) by Paul McGee. He talks about people wearing the &#8220;Victim&#8221; T-shirt and becoming happy in that role. 
 
 I believe a lot of people become so defensive out of a fear of failure, and looking bad in front of their peers. 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to admit I do get annoyed when I hear people saying, &ldquo;It&rsquo;s not my fault&rdquo; these days. It is happening all too often and there is far too much of a blame and compensation culture here in the UK. I&rsquo;m sure this will not only apply to the UK but that is where my experiences lie. </p>
<p>I believe people get some degree of happiness from blaming others, attempting to make themselves look better by bringing others down. </p>
<p>I enjoyed the book SUMO (Shut Up Move On) by Paul McGee. He talks about people wearing the &ldquo;Victim&rdquo; T-shirt and becoming happy in that role. </p>
<p> I believe a lot of people become so defensive out of a fear of failure, and looking bad in front of their peers.</p>
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