From the category archives:

Book Reviews

HowToBeRichAndHappySmall

Ed. Note – There are affiliate links in this post.  That means I will get paid a commission on any sales that come from you clicking through a link and purchasing a book.  So help a brother out, huh? ;)

I don’t think it’s much of a secret that I’m a fan of personal development books.  So, when I heard that Life Coach Tim Brownson (who I’ve featured on this blog previously) was co-authoring a book called How To Be Rich and Happy, I was excited to read and review it.  I don’t always agree with Tim, but that’s okay.  I respect the fact that he’s honest about who he is, and, on the whole he’s a pretty awesome dude.

I was even more excited when Tim offered me a free copy to review on this site.  I’m a sucker for free stuff.  If you click through this link, you can get the first three sections of the book as a free download, as well.

The thing is, I’m pretty picky about the books that I read, and I’m even more picky about the books that I recommend.  John Maxwell’s book Developing The Leader Within You is one of, if not the, most recently published personal development books that I own.  It was published in 1993.  Other books that I often recommend are:

With the exception of Hung By The Tongue, all of these books are older than I am (a couple are older than my grandparents, for cryin’ out loud).  Personally, I think that’s an advantage.  If you can still find a book that, in the case of The Richest Man In Babylon, has been around for 83 years and is still in print, there’s probably something there you should pay attention to.

Truth stands the test of time.  Hype fades.

Which brings me back to How To Be Rich and Happy.  What Tim and his co-author John Strelecky have written is nothing earth-shattering.

In my mind, that’s a HUGE compliment.

With so many so-called gurus and lifestyle designers out there today, it’s refreshing to read a book by contemporary authors that emphasize time-tested personal development theories.  Topics such as:

  • Aligning your goals and values
  • The power of positive self-talk and daily, verbal affirmations
  • Greeting life’s challenges with enthusiasm, rather than trying to do everything possible to side-step them
  • And more…

Of course, they put these ideas into their own words and provide timely examples to drive the concepts home.  They’re simply updating timeless truths for a new generation of people who haven’t yet been introduced to them.

As I read through the book, every single chapter had me thinking, “This is the one I’ll feature.  This is the one that the rest of the book hinges on.  This is the one that will be most helpful to my readers”.  Then I’d read one chapter further and change my mind.  There are so many great points made that it’s impossible to pick just one or two to single out.

I don’t know about you, but there have been many times in my life where I’ve heard a piece of advice that I’d heard many times previously, yet all of a sudden it finally clicks.  Many of the things that Tim and John wrote about in this book are issues that I addressed in my Life Design Series on this very blog.

Even though the content of the message wasn’t different, the way they said it, and the examples they used to support it, somehow shed a whole new light on many of these concepts.  For me, that’s great.  I can never hear positive lessons too many times, because so often I lose sight of them.

Having read through the book in two days, I really feel as though I’ve had the opportunity to have some one-on-one time with the authors, asking them questions and getting their opinions on how to address some of the challenges I face.  And I’m certain that when I read through it again (which I will very soon), I’ll pick up on many things that I missed the first time.

Are there areas where I would have written something a little differently, or chosen a different example?  Sure there are.  But that’s the great thing about this book.  What I’ve said in the past may have planted a seed that will be watered and come to fruition through reading How To Be Rich and Happy. Each one of us can’t reach everyone, but we can all reach someone that no one else can.

I can’t recommend this book highly enough, which is why I’m happy to say that it’s the first product that I’ve been willing to feature on this blog and carry an ad for (which you can find on the right hand side of your screen).  Give it a read.  You won’t be disappointed.

Have you read How To Be Rich and Happy?  What did you think?  Let the rest of us know in the comments…

Did you enjoy this post? Then Stumble it!



No Sign

Ed. note – Been a while since I did a book review around here.  Although this isn’t a proper review of the entire book, I don’t know if I could recommend this book more highly if I spent 2000 words detailing every chapter.  You really should pick it up if you’ve not read it before.

Re-reading through one of my all-time favorite books of any genre (let alone self-improvement), The Magic of Thinking Big, by Dr. David Schwartz. I’d like to highlight a little of what he’s talking about in Chap. 2, just to give you a taste of some of the topics he covers. Though this is an older book (first published in 1959), the principles are timeless.

He mentions four reasons that people allow themselves to be defeated in the pursuit of their dreams, terming them different forms of the killer disease excusitis. These four are:

1. Health

2. Intelligence

3. Age

4. Luck

HEALTH

We’ve all met someone who’s constantly bemoaning the state of their ingrown toenails, the air quality, the pollen count, their fair skin that’s subject to burning, etc. etc. These people are probably in generally good health, but they allow themselves to think their way into every imaginable ailment known to human kind.

What’s worse, these are the same people who will pass on this habit to their unfortunate, impressionable children. The kids don’t have a chance; they’ll grow up to be as big, if not bigger, hypochondriacs than their parents were.  Most of us could come up with examples of this from our own personal experience.

I realize that there are genuine health challenges that certain people face. However, there are those individuals (such as Mark Zupan, the inspiring paralympian from the documentary film, Murderball) who face greater limitations to their ability to function in society than most of us will ever dream. These people don’t waste time pitying themselves; they go out and find ways to circumvent their challenges and thrive and achieve at the highest levels of society.

Helen Keller, anyone?

INTELLIGENCE

There are very few people willing to publicly admit that they feel intellectually inferior to their peers. However, there are many who harbor these thoughts privately.

The truth is, a few points on an IQ test matter very little (and can often be a hindrance).

What’s crucial to success is not having all the answers, but a commitment to success itself. As long as you won’t give up, you can encounter as many learning opportunities as you can stomach.  Very often, those with a high IQ (and are aware of it) suffer from analysis paralysis or the habit of waiting for the “perfect time” to begin a new endeavor. Sadly, that time never comes.

AGE

Age is viewed as a hindrance not only by the old, but by the young. Some of our more mature readers should always remind themselves of the story of Ray Kroc (founder of McDonalds), who didn’t buy his restaurant from the McDonald brothers until well into his 50’s.

Consider this: a typical college graduate enters the workforce at 22, and the most successful leaders of companies and organizations will typically work well into their 70’s. This leaves a span of over 50 years to accomplish something in the business world truly worthy of the word success. A person really doesn’t even hit the midpoint of his or her effective working life until they’re around 50 years of age! Maybe this causes some of you to shudder (it certainly does me), but it’s true.

LUCK

Finally, luck. I believe luck is like Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny; only the very young or the sorely misinformed believe in it.

I’ve heard, as I’m sure you have, that luck is where opportunity and preparedness meet. If you’re ready for the opportunities that come your way, you’ll be one of the luckiest people around, and people will envy how you always seem to land on your feet. Be always ready through constant application of your current skills and the never-ending effort to gain new ones, and luck will find you.

These are the four strains of excusitis. If you think you may be suffering from this malady, try the following exercise.  Make a conscious effort to pay attention to what you say at all times for the next week, and see if you catch yourself making excuses for why you can’t accomplish what others seem to do easily.

If you catch yourself making excuses, replace them  with affirmations. Instead of telling yourself why you can’t do something, start telling yourself ways that you can.

For me personally, I have a big case of luck excusitis.  What about you?  What kinds of excuses do you find yourself offering?  Why do we feel like we have to justify ourselves?  Any thoughts on how to end that need?  Share them in the comments…

Did you enjoy this post? Then Stumble it!